Whichever way you look at it, sex outside wedlock always complicate things. You might say it is old faction not to have sex with your partner before marriage. Many even believe that they must test and be sure she can satisfy them sexually before they consider marriage. However, as much as sex is important in marriage, deep down in your heart, you will agree that marriage is not all about sex, it is responsibility, integrity, reliability and security.
Unfortunately, many failed to realize that contrary to the belief that early sex will strengthen the relationship, too many times sex has been the very root cause of the problem. The reason is that they refused to wait for the right time. If you hurried into sexual intimacy, it often bring unnecessary pain, disappointment and suffering.
What Then Is The Right Time?
Whatever you do out of fear and insecurity will never bring good result. Any woman who think she can make her man feel more attached to her might be in for a rude shock. Sex usually will not make a man feel more attached to you, in fact the more you indulge in frequent sexual intimacy, the less his feelings towards you.
For the men, sex is fun and nothing more. They love sex. The greatest mistake any woman will make is to think she can use sex to bind a man to herself. There is time and season for everything under the sun, the Holy Book tells us. You must learn to wait for the right time for sex. When there is true love, sex will make your relationship more beautiful, but this will not happen without love and deeper feelings towards each other.
Before going into sexual intimacy with a man, you must ask yourself these questions:
• How well do you know him.
• How good is his personality, (do not measure his personality with his wealth, he could be rich and irresponsible)
• Is he a man of his words?
• What is his family background?
• What are the type of friends he keeps?
• Is he selfish in nature?
• Is he the one who boast of his sexual experiences to his friends?
If you love yourself, you must avoid putting yourself in potentially embarrassing situation by having sex with a man whose personality your hardly know. Further more, ask yourself, who wants that sex more, you or him? Look into your heart and try to distinguish between what you want and what you need. What you want is not necessarily what you need. You may want it but do you really need it? Is the fun of having it worth the risk that may follow?
Sexual intimacy should be by mutual agreement and satisfaction, it should not be one party affair. Value yourself, no one else will value you unless you value yourself. Allow sexual intimacy only if you feel comfortable doing it. In this case you must put yourself as your priority. Sex out of a committed relationship is particularly risky for the females.
My next advice is for the men.
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